Flirt fever forever!
The First Steps to Achieving an Active Social Life
First thing’s first, there are two requirements for a total social life makeover: time and a desire to better yourself. If you have both, then you can get started today.
If you rated yourself a 7 or higher on that 1 to 10 social life scale which I mentioned earlier, then you can skip this section of the book. I wrote this to give women with little to no social life a serious boost in both confidence AND ideas.
And ladies, let’s be serious here. If you’re not confident about your social life, how confident will you feel in your dating life? Pretty easy question to answer, right? So get out there first, have some fun, get to know other single women who are enjoying themselves, and then meet some guys.
Did I throw you a curve ball with the single women part? Here’s the hard truth - your married friends are going to bring you down. They’re going to give you advice and ideas when the truth is they don’t know what they’re talking about!
Again, don’t take advice from your married friends. They’re in their own little bubble worlds, just like you were when you weren’t dating and going out. They mean well, but that doesn’t cut it anymore. You need new friends who are in your shoes and understand what you’re going through; friends who will flood your head with cool ideas and things to do.
Lastly, when you start dating again, you’ll have people who you can talk to who aren’t critical about your dating decisions! They’ll give it to you straight because they understand what you’re going through. A married woman isn’t going to do that! They’re already critical of your situation and their advice will only bring you down.
You know who you’re looking for (single women around your age) - now, where do you find them?
“Gregg, do I have the wrong book?” I started off looking for single men, now I’m looking for single women? You aren’t doing this on purpose…are you?”
I know, I know. It sounds a bit odd. But having other women in place who are dating just like you is important because they can give you a wealth of information in experiences, more than I could ever offer you in a single book.
It’s not that you’re looking for single women specifically. You’re just looking for unmarried women your age who are involved in many active social circles. It’s a foot in the door to meeting awesome people!
Where do you start? I recommend you set up profiles on all three of the following social sites designed specifically for women to meet other women in the area on a friendship basis:
